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The Practice of Retreat

Since ancient times all wise cultures have known the value of retreat. Time in retreat allows us to step out of the complexity of our life, to listen deeply to our body, heart, and mind. For 2,600 years, meditation retreats have been a central part of the Buddhist path of awakening.

Meditation retreats offer practical instruction and group support for discovering inner understanding and freedom. Spirit Rock retreats combine the fertile atmosphere of silence with extensive time for meditation and walks in nature, supported by systematic Buddhist teachings. Careful guidance and training is offered in meditation. Most retreats are suitable for both new and more experienced students of meditation.

The Practice of Retreat

A retreat provides an opportunity and a caring container for undertaking intensive meditation, like an immersion course in a language. The central practice is mindfulness (sati), which enables us to see how we create difficulties in our lives and to discover a freedom of heart in the midst of all things. Mindfulness practice is accompanied and complemented by training in lovingkindness (mettā) meditation.

Spirit Rock retreats, both on land and online, involve a gathering of 30 to 100 or more participants. Most of the retreat is held in silence, and retreat participants do not speak to one another. Writing and reading are also discouraged so that retreatants can better stay with their own present experience as it unfolds moment to moment. In this silent and mindful environment, awareness sharpens, the body quiets, the mind clears, and space opens for insight and understanding to develop.

With no diversions, the tendency toward distraction is reduced. In this space of intimacy with ourselves, there is a good possibility that we will know ourselves better after a retreat than we did before. Self-knowledge and understanding grow as we see that we can live each moment either with inattention, fear, and judgment or with clarity, kindness, and wakefulness. By cultivating the power of awareness, clarity, and kindness, we discover the path to liberation, inner freedom, and a peaceful heart.

Retreats are led by a team of experienced teachers from Spirit Rock or by other well-known and beloved visiting teachers from our broader Buddhist community. The teachers offer instructions, Dharma talks, and regularly scheduled practice meetings to provide guidance throughout the retreat.

While the guidelines given here are primarily for in-person retreats at Spirit Rock, the same suggestions apply for online retreats. For practice suggestions specific to online retreats, see our Home Retreat Guidelines.

Retreat Schedule

The daily rhythm of a retreat usually involves alternating periods of sitting and walking meditation, eating, and work meditations, as well as practice meetings, Dharma talks, and rest periods. The first sitting usually begins at about 6:00 a.m., and a typical day includes seven sitting and six walking periods of 45 minutes apiece. Each morning the teachers offer continuing meditation instructions for the day. The whole retreat is a succession of mindfulness training, deep awareness of the body and environment, meditations on the nature of feelings, and awareness of mind and the laws that govern it. These are the same fundamental teachings of Insight Meditation offered in the Theravāda Buddhist monasteries of Asia.

Sitting Meditation

Walking Meditation

Eating Meditation

Work Meditation

Dharma Talks

Practice Meetings

Leaving the Retreat

Types of Retreats

Insight Meditation Retreats

Most retreats at Spirit Rock present the teachings of mindfulness, concentration (samādhi), lovingkindness (mettā), and Insight Meditation (vipassanā), which are based on Theravāda and Early Buddhist practice forms. The meditation instructions on these retreats generally follow the Four Foundations of Mindfulness.

Lovingkindness Retreats

Retreats dedicated to mettā (lovingkindness) practice are regularly held. In these retreats, practitioners work with lovingkindness practice throughout the day instead of the foundations of mindfulness, and often expand the practice to include the heart practices known as the Four Divine Abodes.

Affinity Retreats

Specialized retreats are regularly offered for affinity groups such as BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, self-identified women or men, young adults, and families. Affinity retreats strengthen community and equity by providing dedicated containers for practice that allow the distinct experience of members of these groups to be held in the support of Beloved Community.

Retreat Guidelines & Agreements

Attendance & Presence

Practice Forms

Silence

Work Meditation

Accommodations

Food

Retreat Attire

Trauma & Other Challenges

Intensive silent meditation retreats can be a beautiful and transformative experience. However, they can also invoke challenging emotional and mental states that are best engaged when physically and psychologically healthy. If you have experienced trauma and suspect that it would be difficult for you to be alone in silence, intensive retreat may not be the right practice for you at the moment. Recent painful experiences such as the death of a loved one can make silent retreat more difficult for some practitioners while others may find retreat healing or comforting. If you are in doubt about whether retreat is appropriate for you at the moment, consult a therapist or mental health professional.

Though our teachers are trained to recognize the symptoms of trauma and severe distress, they are not in the role of therapists or psychological professionals (even if they hold that training professionally). Retreat teachers are unable to give the kind of individual psychological care necessary to care for acute trauma symptoms.

If you are currently under the care of a psychiatric professional, please discuss your attendance with them. Practitioners should be in a stable period of mental well-being and have adequate self-regulatory resources to attend an intensive silent retreat. You will be asked for your mental health professional’s contact information on the pre-retreat practitioner questionnaire.

Dāna: Generosity & Giving

The cultivation of generosity is at the heart of the Buddha’s path. Dāna is the Pāli word for giving, and refers to the spiritual practice of generosity and letting go. Your giving supports our teachers and staff to continue offering the Dharma in an accessible and open-handed way. To read more about dāna, go to Dāna: The Practice of Giving.

Dāna for Retreat Teachers

When teachers offer retreats on-land at Spirit Rock (or 4+ day online retreats), they receive dāna as an expression of gratitude. This dāna comes from the community of practitioners who participated in the retreat.

At the end of your retreat you’ll be asked to offer dāna both to the teachers and to Spirit Rock. Typically, teachers receive no compensation for teaching at Spirit Rock beyond what practitioners give. Your gifts support teachers to continue their practice and teaching, maintaining the ancient system of interdependence between teachers and community.

Dāna for Spirit Rock

Spirit Rock depends on the generosity of our community to continue offering the teachings in an accessible way. Retreat registration fees gather only part of our budget, and donations are needed to supply the rest, including scholarships, staff, and all other expenses. Giving to Spirit Rock benefits every aspect of offering the Dharma on-land and online to an ever broader community of practitioners worldwide.

At the end of your retreat you’ll be asked to give dāna both to the teachers and to Spirit Rock, and you can give anytime at our giving page. For those who are inspired to support Spirit Rock’s sustainability into the future, consider joining the Stewardship Saṅgha, Sure Heart Saṅgha, or Legacy Saṅgha.

Dāna is tax deductible to the full extent of the law. Please retain your payment information as evidence of your gift. Deep appreciation for your generosity!

After Your Retreat

After retreat, participants receive an email with a link to the recordings from the retreat on the archive website Dharma Seed, where you can stream recordings from Insight Meditation teachers and Theravāda monastics worldwide. Participants also receive a link to a feedback survey, which helps us continually develop our offerings and support practitioners better in their practice.

It can take time to integrate our experiences on retreat into the rest of our lives. Some helpful supports for integration are continued connection with Dharma friends, daily practice, and knowing when your next retreat will be.

  • Browse the directory of Buddhist Insight Network to find Insight Meditation communities, centers, and meditation groups worldwide. Practicing with others is the most supportive factor for many people in continuing their practice in daily life.

  • Next Step Dharma is an accessible online course that offers resources and practices to support your integration after retreat. Created by Spirit Rock teachers Oren Sofer and Jaya Rudgard, Next Step Dharma includes teachings from senior Insight Meditation teachers including Jack Kornfield, Joseph Goldstein, and Sharon Salzberg on establishing a strong ongoing practice and deepening on the path. The course includes structured connection with Dharma peers and teachers to sustain your practice in the months following your retreat.

And of course, keep joining us at Spirit Rock! Explore our drop-in groups, online programs, upcoming retreats, and Dharma training programs to find a path of practice that supports you best.

Generosity for the Benefit of All Beings

All of our Dharma offerings are made possible by the generosity of our donors. Please consider making a gift to our scholarship fund today. Your expression of dāna (generosity) will help people who are experiencing financial hardship to begin, deepen, or reignite their practice and study.