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Mettā Retreat: Teachings and Practices to Cultivate a Wise, Compassionate, and Resilient Heart

January 11 - January 18, 2027
Silent meditation retreat On-Land

Mettā Retreat: Teachings and Practices to Cultivate a Wise, Compassionate, and Resilient Heart

This retreat focuses on the cultivation of mettā, or lovingkindness—the intentional development of a heart grounded in goodwill toward oneself and all beings. Unlike retreats that emphasize mindfulness primarily as a basis for insight, the core practice here is the systematic cultivation of mettā as a way of relating to experience and living with greater kindness, even in a fractured world marked by uncertainty and stress.

Drawing on our mindfulness practice, we learn to recognize and soften habitual patterns that limit the heart’s natural capacity for goodwill. While the primary emphasis is mettā, we also explore compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity as supportive qualities.

This retreat is silent except for teacher-led Q&A, small groups, or other practice meetings.

Sliding Scale Pricing

Choose your rate

We offer our retreats on a sliding scale to make the Dharma accessible to all.
By selecting the highest rate you're able to afford, you help support Spirit Rock's ability to offer lower rates and meet the growing number of scholarship requests. Your generosity sustains our nonprofit mission and ensures that these teachings of lovingkindness and wisdom remain available to everyone.

$4375

Maximum generosity.
Helps the dharma remain accessible to all.

  • Covers all costs with generous offering
  • Supports reduced rates and scholarships
  • Tax-deductible amount above Sustainer rate
  • Guaranteed single room

$3500

Generous support.
Helps the community and teachings.

  • Covers all costs with meaningful contribution
  • Supports our work and future programs
  • Tax-deductible amount above Sustainer rate
  • Higher chance of single room

$2625

Our standard rate.
The foundation of our community.

  • Covers food, lodging, and program costs
  • Supports program sustainability
  • Not tax-deductible
  • Shared or single accommodations

$1750

Partially subsidized.
Made possible by community generosity.

  • Makes programs more accessible
  • Not tax-deductible
  • Shared or single accommodations

Financial Aid

Needs-based assistance

Scholarships are limited to those with significant financial need.
If you need a scholarship to attend, we encourage you to select the scholarship rate that best aligns with you and your financial circumstances.

$665

For those facing financial hardship, including elders 65+ on fixed incomes, or those with serious or life-threatening illnesses.

  • Not tax-deductible
  • Shared or single accommodations
We’ll notify you if a scholarship becomes available.

$665

For those who self-identify as Black, Indigenous, and/or People of Color and need financial assistance to attend a program.

  • Not tax-deductible
  • Shared or single accommodations
We’ll notify you if a scholarship becomes available.

$665

For young adults (ages 18–26) experiencing financial need who wish to attend a program and deepen their practice.

  • Not tax-deductible
  • Shared or single accommodations
We’ll notify you if a scholarship becomes available.

$50

For parents or legal guardians (grandparents, relatives, or foster parents) from low to modest income households who are actively raising children under the age of 18 in their home, with special priority given to those who are single parenting. 

  • Not tax-deductible
  • Shared or single accommodations
We’ll notify you if a scholarship becomes available.

Teacher Dāna

Please note that registration fees do not include teacher dana. At the end of the retreat, there will be an invitation to offer dana to the teachers and to Spirit Rock.

Continuing Education Credits

Please pay for CE Credits PRIOR to the start of the program. You can add during checkout.

12 CE Credits: $120

This program offers 12 Continuing Education (CE) credits/contact hours for $120. This program is applicable for licensed and license-eligible mental health and health care professionals, including psychologists, social workers (LCSW, LSW), counselors (LPC, LCPC, LMHC), marriage and family therapists, nurses (RN, NP), chiropractors, and other health care professionals. Please review our CE information page for provider details and to determine if your association or board will accept credits offered by Spirit Rock.

The cultivation of lovingkindness and the companion practices of compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity offer healthcare professionals a sustainable inner resource for the demands of clinical and caregiving work. Research on lovingkindness meditation and compassion-based training supports measurable benefits relevant to professional practice, including reduced empathic distress, decreased burnout risk, and enhanced capacity for emotional regulation. Caregivers will find these practices supportive for maintaining relational presence, softening self-critical responses, and bringing greater steadiness to the emotional weight of patient and client care. These practices translate directly to clinical environments, where the ability to remain open without becoming overwhelmed is both an ethical and a practical necessity.

Grounded in contemplative practice and supported by a growing body of research on compassion-based interventions, this program offers mental health and healthcare professionals practical skills for sustaining compassionate presence in both personal and professional life.

To be eligible for Continuing Education (CE), you must:

  • Register and pay for CE by 4:30pm PT, the business day before the program. The CE fee is non-refundable once the program begins.
  • Attend live, in full, and fulfill all attendance requirements and next steps. Please review the CE information page for more details.

CONTENT LEVEL: Introductory

Learning Objectives

  • Describe a lovingkindness practice and its application to caregiving relationships and clinical presence.
  • Describe the interrelationship among lovingkindness, compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity — and their collective role in supporting emotional balance.
  • Identify how sustained contemplative practice supports stress regulation and psychological resilience.
  • Apply lovingkindness and compassion practices to reduce self-critical responses in the context of ongoing client and patient care.
  • Apply mindfulness-based reflection to maintain grounded, regulated presence during emotionally demanding clinical encounters.
  • Utilize equanimity practices to support emotional stability when working with patient suffering and clinical stress.
  • Utilize compassion practices to sustain caregiving capacity and reduce risk of empathic distress and professional burnout.
  • Differentiate among lovingkindness, compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity as distinct yet interrelated skills, and identify conditions under which each is most applicable in professional practice.

Continuing Education Schedule

(Full attendance is required. Times are listed in Pacific time.)

  • January 11: No CE sessions
  • January 12-17
    • 3:45 – 4:30pm: Practice Instructions, Q&A
    • 7:30 – 8:30pm: Discourse/Dharma Talk
  • January 18: No CE sessions

Attendance policy for CE participants:

  • Full, documented attendance is required.
  • Incomplete attendance nullifies CE eligibility, as board regulations do not permit partial credit for partial attendance.
  • Check in for CE instructions in the Council House at the beginning of the retreat, during the regular check-in period.
  • Sign in on the attendance sheet at the CE table, in the retreat hall foyer, within 5 minutes of the start of each required session. A list of required sessions will be posted with the retreat schedule and available at retreat check-in in the Council House.
  • It is the participant's responsibility to sign in to document complete attendance— undocumented attendance nullifies CE eligibility.

Next Steps

  • Submit your professional information within one week of receiving the link. 
  • This link will be emailed within 2 business days after the program concludes to all participants who met the attendance requirements. 
  • Certificates will be automatically generated and emailed upon submission.

Additional notes

  • Visit our Continuing Education Credit information page for complete provider details and additional CE information, including attendance requirements and our cancellation and grievance policies.
  • Continuing Education is sponsored by Mindful CECs.
  • Mindful CECs is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. Mindful CECs maintains responsibility for this program and its content.
  • Mindful CECs is a provider approved by the California Board of Registered Nursing, Provider Number CEP17985 for 12 contact hours.
  • Participants are responsible for determining whether this program meets the CE requirements of their licensing board or certifying organization. Spirit Rock does not confirm CE applicability for license types beyond the scope of Mindful CECs' provider approvals.
  • Credit is awarded for instructional time only and does not include extended silent meditation, if offered.
  • Conflict of Interest Statement: These instructors may have authored publications relevant to the subjects covered in this course and may teach additional programs. The instructors might reference these publications and programs during the course, and the instructors may receive financial compensation if participants choose to purchase them.

Meet the Teaching Team

Gullu Singh, JD

Gullu Singh, JD

Teacher

Gulwinder “Gullu” Singh is a corporate real estate attorney and dedicated Dharma practitioner teaching secular and Buddhist meditation in legal, corporate, and academic settings. A graduate of Spirit Rock’s Teacher Training, he serves on core faculty for major programs and is the incoming Co-chair of the Guiding Teacher Council.

Donald Rothberg, PhD

Donald Rothberg, PhD

Teacher

Donald Rothberg, PhD, has practiced Insight Meditation since 1976 and trained in Dzogchen, Mahāmudrā, and Hakomi psychotherapy. A former professor, he now teaches meditation, psychology, and socially engaged Buddhism. He’s led long-term training programs through the Buddhist Peace Fellowship, Saybrook, and Spirit Rock. Donald served on BPF’s board and is author of The Engaged Spiritual Life and co-editor of Ken Wilber in Dialogue.

Diana Winston

Diana Winston

Teacher

Diana Winston is the Director of UCLA Mindful, the mindfulness education center of UCLA Health. She has taught retreats at Spirit Rock since 2004. She is the author of Fully Present, The Little Book of Being, and Wide Awake: A Buddhist Guide for Teens.

Beth Sternlieb

Beth Sternlieb

Teacher

Beth Sternlieb is a teacher at InsightLA and co-director of clinical and research programs in yoga and mindfulness at the UCLA Pediatric Pain Program. Beth completed the SRMC/IMS/IRC 4-year teacher training in 2016.

Jonathan Relucio (Movement Teacher), MA

Jonathan Relucio (Movement Teacher), MA

Movement

Jonathan Relucio teaches mindfulness and embodiment practices grounded in healing, justice, and liberation. A former Senior Trainer at Niroga Institute, he teaches with Spirit Rock, East Bay Meditation Center, and Braided Wisdom, drawing on over 20 years in community organizing, social services, and leadership development. He's part of CDL 7.

Ronya Fakhoury Banks (Teacher in Training), LCSW

Ronya Fakhoury Banks (Teacher in Training), LCSW

Teacher in Training

Ronya is the founding teacher of Asheville Insight Meditation group. She has been practicing mindfulness meditation since 1985, has sat on two years on retreats, and had experience as a Theravada Buddhist nun. Born in Kuwait of Palestinian-American descent and raised in Islamic faith, Ronya values justice and equality.

Helpful Info & FAQs

Cancellation Policy

Standard Cancellation Fees:*

  • $50: On or before 12 weeks 
  • $100: 8-12 weeks before
  • $175: 4-8 weeks before
  • $300: 2-4 weeks before
  • No refunds less than 2 weeks before

Scholarship and Commuter Rate Cancellation Fees:*

  • Full refund: On or before 12 weeks
  • $75: 8-12 weeks before
  • $100: 4-8 weeks before
  • $200: 2-4 weeks before
  • No refunds less than 2 weeks before

*Fees reduced for serious illness or death in family

**Monthlong retreats and Dharma Training programs have specific and very different cancellation policies. Refer back to your confirmation email for this information.**

Payment Plan Option

Payment plans are available to everyone! Installments can only be set up on a credit cards, and some debit cards (we only accept VISA, Mastercard, or Discover).

You can either pay in full or pay a 30% deposit when you register. If you choose the deposit option, the remaining balance will be automatically charged monthly in equal installments using the same card you used to pay your deposit. The payment will debit on the 'same date' of the month that you paid your deposit. Full payment is due 2 weeks prior to the retreat start.

Let us know if you need to adjust a debit date or if you need to update your credit card. Any adjustments need to be done well in advance of a scheduled debit date. We are not able to 'reverse' a charge once it has been processed.

COVID and Other Illnesses

  • While on retreat, participants live closely together and are in shared spaces; so it is very important that everyone takes steps to minimize the transmission of colds, flu, or other infectious diseases. We ask individuals who are sick to please stay home! Notify the registration department as soon as possible; cancellation fees will apply. 
  • Spirit Rock does not require proof of vaccination or compulsory testing for COVID, if you feel uncertain about this policy participants are encouraged to wear a mask for your own personal comfort, but it is not required. In advance of your retreat, please consider wearing a mask while en route to Spirit Rock via public transportation of any kind. Be mindful of attending large public gatherings where the risk of exposure is increased. If you have cold or flu-like symptoms, take a COVID test, and please reconsider coming on retreat.
  • We suggest everyone practice diligent hand hygiene (20 seconds of handwashing as often as practical).
  • If a practitioner (or teacher) becomes sick while on retreat, they will be asked to mask, and if serious, leave the retreat. We will also ask that they take a COVID antigen self-test onsite, and if they test positive for COVID-19, they must exit the retreat. We will not be able to offer a refund for mid-retreat exits.

Room Occupancy

We have double and single occupancy rooms. Many of our rooms are single occupancy (only 16 of 80 rooms are double occupancy). We offer a limited number of "guaranteed single room" rates which guarantees a single room while generously helping to support scholarships and all we do here at Spirit Rock. The remaining single rooms are not exclusive to the top end of the sliding scale; however, they are initially prioritized for those with serious medical needs.

What is a Retreat Commuter?

What is a Retreat Commuter?

A retreat commuter is a practitioner who attends a full residential retreat, including all meals, but they are not provided with overnight accommodations. Instead practitioners stay in their own home, or find local accommodations at their own expense. A shared resting area is provided during the day while on campus for the retreat located below the main hall. The retreat commuter is expected to attend the entire retreat just like residential retreatants. Special reduced rates are available for retreat commuters. An added benefit of a retreat commuter, is that you could be offered a residential spot on opening day due to a very last minute cancellation. Additional fees will be due if this option is accepted.

The retreat commuter option will only become available once the retreat is full with a waitlist. However, if your personal circumstances preclude you from attending a residential retreat (staying overnight), please reach out to us as we may be able to offer you a commuter spot sooner and we would be happy to have a conversation with you. ("Personal circumstances" could be situations like if you are a sole caregiver, or parent w/young children where you need to be home each night, for example.)

Prerequisite for Commuters:

You must have attended at least one weeklong silent residential retreat (5-7 nights) in Insight (vipassanā) meditation PRIOR to attending this retreat. Online retreat experience is not eligible for this prerequisite.

If you have questions about being a retreat commuter, please email [email protected]

Participation and Attendance Guidelines

Explore the practice of being on retreat - Learn more here.

  • This retreat is silent except for teacher-led Q&A, small groups, or other practice meetings. Explore "How Retreat Works"
  • Preparing for Your Retreat
  • We strongly encourage you to read the sub-section "Retreat Guidelines and Agreements" so you understand what is required of you as a participant on this silent retreat.
  • Review a general outline of a Retreat Schedule.
  • If you have "never meditated" before, we recommend attending two to three daylong programs first! Then "graduate" to longer retreats like a 4- or 5-night retreat.
  • We would be happy to help guide you and set you up for success, please contact the Registration Department so we may have a conversation. We want you to be prepared.

Scholarship Offerings and Types

Spirit Rock Meditation Center offers several categories of scholarship types for residential retreats. Scholarship rates are limited to those with significant financial need. A scholarship application is required to be considered for any scholarship rate below. We have many requests for scholarships and cannot honor all requests. Visit our Scholarship FAQs at the bottom of the Financial Support page.

Muditā/Karuṇa Scholarship Rate: 

  • Muditā: supports any individual who has significant financial need; this includes everyone, especially our low-income folks and elders (65+) on fixed incomes; or young adults who have 'aged out' of the Young Adult rate.
  • Karuṇa: supports individuals who have significant financial need and have a serious medical condition(s), or life-threatening illness.

Dr. Marlene Jones People of Color Scholarship Rate: supports individuals who have significant financial need and who self-identify as Black, Indigenous, and/or a Person of color.

Toni Ko Scholarship Rate: supports individuals who have a significant financial need, are 27-55 years old, AND are attending their FIRST silent residential retreat (limited to a 6-night retreat only) at Spirit Rock. This scholarship is a one-time award. This has a $50 reservation fee that is fully refunded upon retreat attendance.

Present Parent Scholarship Rate: supports parents or legal guardians (grandparents, relatives, or foster parents) from low-to-modest income backgrounds wanting to attend a residential retreat who are actively raising children under the age of 18 in their home, with special priority given to single parents. It is available for most standard residential retreats (9 nights or less) and only once per calendar year. It is not available for the following: monastic retreats, family retreats, monthlong retreats, or any training programs with residential retreats. This has a $50 reservation fee that is fully refunded upon retreat attendance.

Young Adult Scholarship Rate: supports individuals who have significant financial need and who are between the age of 18-26 years old. If all the Young Adult rates are sold out, you may select one of the above options that may also apply to you.

Renunciate Monastics: Monastics in the Buddhist traditions are invited to attend Spirit Rock retreats without cost. Monastic discounts can be extended only to one having taken vows and abiding as a renunciate, living exclusively on donations and having no form of income through work or other sources. You will need to provide the name of the monastery you are affiliated and the lead teacher or abbot you practice under. To learn more, contact the Registration Dept at: [email protected].

*Maximum annual scholarship limit is two per calendar year; this limit is not a guarantee.